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Help Him Choose The Perfect Engagement Ring

@iluvsarahii recently got engaged to @ayyysebas, and we are loving their engagement photos!

Buying an engagement ring is tricky for men because it decides the impression they make on their lady while proposing to her. He will surely want a perfect ring to get an affirmative answer when he pops the big question.

Whether he is a novice shopper or knows the intricacies of jewelry buying, expect this decision to be one of the most challenging ones he will have to make up to this point in your relationship. Typically, a jewelry purchase of this magnitude is quite a stressful process as he must choose a ring without your help. Not to mention, it could be a costly mistake if not executed properly.

To avoid any undesirable outcomes, knowing you well makes matching the ring with your expectations easier than he thinks. In an effort to help your partner decide on the most ideal ring of choice, we have outlined four key qualities to consider and a curated list of engagement rings (coming soon) to pique your interest as well as his to equip you both for this decision of a lifetime.

01

Personality

A perfect jewelry piece should match the wearer's personality, and this rule applies to engagement rings, too. Moreover, the selection becomes pretty straightforward when he matches it with your personality. For example, he can choose a classy and sophisticated ring if your personal style is already a reflection of these qualities. Alternatively, a flashy ring with a large diamond is more likely a match for a woman who loves luxury. He will presumably know your taste and preferences after spending time with you up to this point. If he keeps an eye on the pieces you wear every day, this will be an effortless observation.

02

Lifestyle

Another quality he must consider for a perfect match is whether the ring complements your lifestyle. You will want to wear your ring every day, so to miss this point would be disastrous. He must identify what type of lifestyle you have to find the right engagement ring design so that you will feel comfortable wearing it in different settings. A simple engagement ring is ideal for working professionals as they could prefer sleek pieces that do not attract too much attention. A party hopper will love an attention-grabbing piece, while a woman who navigates high social circles will appreciate an exquisite design.

@iluvsarahii showing off her engagement ring to her fiancé @ayyysebas.

03

Fit

This quality is a no-brainer because the right fit makes a perfect match. The wrong size will ruin the precious moment as you would not be able to wear the ring on the spot. Bringing the piece back for resizing or exchange is the last thing you or he will want to do after the proposal. Keep in mind that getting the size right is tricky unless he can use a ring from your collection to match it perfectly. Seeking help from a family member or best friend would be helpful, too. However, preparing for this moment should ideally be done well in advance. So, a better option would be for him to take you to a jeweler prior to this event so that it could be a complete surprise.

04

Modern, yet timeless design

Women love trendy jewelry, however, your partner must understand that this is not a clear indicator of what you will want in your piece. A perfect ring will need to be timeless in the end, so it is essential that there be a balance between a modern and timeless design. Since trends are always changing, check the latest trends in engagement rings or look to your favorite celebrity's style to find designs that match your taste. Following a trend blindly for a lifetime asset could turn out to be a costly mistake. Ensure that your ring is classy and one that you could see yourself passing down for generations.

Takeaways

Finding the perfect engagement ring is an exciting time for both of you. While the decision can seem overwhelming for him, preparation and the right approach will always ensure that you both feel less pressure come the big moment of truth when he makes the big purchase. If you equip your partner with the right tools that will leave no questions on the table, he will feel so much more confident with his final choice. By giving a clear idea of what you love in an engagement ring, you can be assured that you will love the ring that he presents to you when he is popping the big question.