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If your desire is to have a balanced life, there are three foundational elements of your life that must be maintained. Think of yourself as a pyramid divided into thirds. The bottom third is your body, the middle is your relationship with yourself, and the top is your relationship with others. Say the top third of your pyramid is very fulfilling—you have amazing friends and family, and you are generally happy with your interpersonal life. However, the bottom two-thirds, which is your relationship with yourself and your body, you have neglected and you are feeling completely overwhelmed and depressed about the state it is in.

One thing is certain, the foundation of your pyramid should be the strongest; It is what keeps your structure strong and able to withstand pressure from things you can not control, which is the top two-thirds of your pyramid. When your body is weak, you find yourself succumbing to outside stresses more easily and will find that over time, your body can not physically support itself optimally, affecting both your physical and mental health.

Incorporating regular physical activity into your weekly routine will greatly enhance all areas of your life and will help you become stronger not only physically, but most importantly, mentally. Your life will improve tremendously once you start making a habit to stay active and exercise regularly. Here are a few reasons why working out will make your life better:

01

You Become More Physically equipped 

Are you ready for higher energy levels throughout the day? Awkward and tedious tasks will no longer be as awkward as you will become more physically equipped to handle them. Being more in tune with your body and developing an intimate understanding of how to optimally care for it will make you feel a lot better about yourself overall. You will not only become physically adept at certain activities and exercises, but you will also be able to handle simple, day-to-day tasks with more ease. You will be more energized, and you will be more inclined to get certain things done that perhaps you would not have been interested in completing before. Whether it is the case of moving around furniture or starting a significant project in the garden, you will have the ability to get it done with less strain, and you will enjoy the physical aspect of these types of challenges.

02

Your Confidence Levels Rise

Confidence plays a huge role in overall happiness. If you are more physically adept and are constantly on the move, you will be a more confident human being. You will feel as though you can and want to do more things in life, which will cause you to seek out more exhilarating and physically demanding experiences. You will seek after and gain constant reward as you find yourself proud of meeting your personal fitness goals and seeing your body develop in ways you did not know were possible.

Many people struggle with the initial motivation to start a fitness plan because they do not know where to start. Start with choosing an environment to be active in that is comfortable for you, whether that be at home, the outdoors, or heading to a gym like Fitness 19 and regularly getting workouts in. Developing a habit of the act of working out will eventually clear the initial mental stress of where the activity will take place.

Over time, the environment will not matter as much as the results that you are after. You will do what you need to do to succeed if that is what your goal is. You will not care who is there or who is watching. Eventually, you will start to feel like you are on top of the world every time you accomplish “gym day” because your confidence grows every day you invest in yourself. Staying consistent with your fitness activities will allow you to see achievable results and will make you feel as though you can conquer anything.

03

Your Brain Gets The Stimulation It Needs

As human beings, we all need something that stimulates our brains. We easily adapt to certain habits and comfort zones, so being physically active is a healthy habit that we must implement to develop ourselves for the better. We also enjoy attaching ourselves to certain passions or topics of interest, so why not make our health and fitness a topic of priority? The mixture of physical challenge and mental hurdles combine to create an amazing feeling of accomplishment whenever you work out. Whether you are simply walking or lifting heavy weights, your brain is getting the satisfaction it needs throughout the process.

Consistently starting your day off the right way with the intentional choice to take care of your body is the best decision you could make in a day. To make matters better, if that was the only choice you made for the entire day, you would still be winning even if you failed at everything else that entire day. Keeping your mind strong requires this simple act because the mind and body respond to each other. If your mind can remain strong, then the body follows that path toward complete and overall mental and physical strength and agility.

04

You are More Inclined To Eat Healthier And Stay Hydrated  

Because you are becoming a lot fitter and healthier, you will be more inclined to drink enough water. You will also better understand why you need to stay nourished in order to really feel the benefits of your workouts. A lot of it will go to waste if you are not eating the right foods or eating junk food. You will likely get into the habit of eating better foods and keeping yourself energized every single day because everything adds up in the end. You would not want to be compromising your hard work by not paying attention to the most important part of a balanced fitness plan— your nutrition.

Eighty percent of your fitness results will be dependent on what you are eating, so this is the most important area to become disciplined in when you choose to pursue any fitness plan. Achieving results is not only about how much you are doing to build your muscles with exercise, but what you are doing to improve your diet and intake of nutritious foods and supplements. When you have a balance between the two, you will feel motivated even more by your efforts.

Takeaways

You will find that what starts as a desire to learn how to care for your body turns into an extremely positive lifestyle choice. No one is exempt from deserving to live life with optimal health and wellness, but what we were never taught was that it requires much more from us before we begin to see what we are ultimately made of. See, that is the beauty of the entire process.

When you start to focus on different areas of yourself, you begin to see just how resilient and strong you are. If we are not pushing ourselves to our limits, we will not ever experience some of the best rewards in this life. Only you have control over your discipline and your choices. This is one of those choices that will forever change your life, and you will be so grateful you made it.

Confidence spreads like wildfire. It is a trait that all leaders have in common, and it is crucial for your career, your overall quality of life, and ultimate success. Confidence can also be difficult to develop for some, and innate for others. If you often succumb to self-doubt, it can feel like a very painful, uphill battle. However, if you develop this area regularly and practice healthy habits to maintain your confidence, you will attain the confidence you desire. You must work on loving yourself and being happy with who you are. Once you have done that, you have won half the battle, and you can work on believing in your abilities even further. Follow these simple steps to go down this path and be surprised at what a difference it makes in building your confidence.

No. 1

Adopt a health-conscious beauty routine

Developing healthy habits is a fundamental way to feel good about yourself. From your diet to your beauty routine, practicing healthy habits daily will take you further in gaining confidence than any piece of clothing will. Whatever we ingest shows up on the exterior more than we care to admit. If we pay attention to this simple fact, we can avoid many common stresses that have a significant effect on our confidence as a whole. For one, the types of foods we eat play a crucial role in our outer appearance and confidence. In particular, switching to a fruit and vegetable-based diet will provide phenomenal results in your energy levels, and in effect will cause you to be healthier and more prepared to present your best self to the world.

Similarly, improving or changing your diet can help you manage your weight, clear up your skin, address health concerns, and help you feel great on a daily basis. If you wash and moisturize your face twice daily and work on combatting acne or any other skin conditions, you can ease through a more natural beauty routine rather than just relying on makeup to cover up underlying issues. All you need to do is start focusing on perfecting a beauty routine that is naturally healthy for you in the long run. Additionally, simply understanding the importance of proper water intake can make all the difference in our body’s ability to function optimally. So, if you are concerned about your skin and overall health and how that affects your confidence levels, simply drink more water daily.

No.2

Learn Something New Every Day

Learning is a very powerful and empowering activity that we can partake in every single day. To start, read and develop your communication skills and knowledge base, or take classes and improve your social skills. If you do these things regularly, you will find that you have more to offer, and that is what builds confidence over time. Get out there into the world and learn about things first-hand or enjoy a documentary after work. By learning something new every day, you better yourself every day. The result is an empowered feeling over time, and it is a great way to build confidence, effortlessly. Find what you enjoy learning about and make it a natural fit in your daily life. Knowing that you are invaluable with so much to offer the world and others will enable you even further along your confidence-building journey. We like to feel needed and have the persistent desire to feel heard, noticed, and appreciated. Doing the above will provide a way to achieve that in any environment. Challenging your brain daily is also a great way to keep it active and engaged in any and every situation.

No. 3

Be mindful of your appearance

I’m sure you have heard the phrase, “first impressions matter.” Well, this is a very true statement because as human beings, we subconsciously judge appearances all the time. It’s a natural way for us to gather information about a person, place, or thing based on appearances first. In that regard, fashion is a way to express who you are without even speaking. We can be happier with who we are and how we present ourselves if we let our creativity and individuality shine through in the way we present ourselves and maintain our appearance consistently. It might sound vain, but feeling good about how we look is an important part of loving ourselves.

If your current attire does not reflect your genuine sense of style or taste, it may reflect negatively on the way you present yourself to the world. You may not feel as confident when meeting people for the first time or you may not have a cohesive first impression that matches other obvious reflections of yourself. If this is the case, you can apply simple changes. For example, this is especially true if your clothes are too tight or make you feel uncomfortable. Dressing for your body type is the best way to feel good in your clothing, look better, and acquire more overall confidence. Look for clothing that feels comfortable and looks good on you, not just what is trending at the moment. Spend some extra time and effort on identifying common dressing troubles such as the best bras for large busts or finding brands that cater to your particular body shape or type.

No. 4

Travel alone

If you really want to test your confidence and build it at the same time, travel alone. Solo travel, especially if you are a woman, is often seen as dangerous or taboo, but it can actually be one of the best ways to travel the world and cultivate your independence. After all, when you are by yourself, you have more incentive to make friends along the way. You are in charge of your future and your safety, and getting through your trip and enjoying it is one of the most empowering things you can do for your self-development. You are completely in charge of your own decisions, and you must learn to rely on yourself and the decisions you make along the way. This will in turn give you confidence in your own decisions after you finish your adventures, and everyday life will suddenly seem that much easier.

takeaways

There is no right or wrong way to become more confident. In fact, the only thing that matters is that you believe in yourself and know your worth. Each of us has so many reasons to believe in ourselves and to feel empowered because we all possess unique gifts that equip us for our life experiences. Allow yourself to naturally discover the things that make you feel distinct from the rest, then focus on that as the mechanism upon which your confidence is built. Only you know the answer to that. Once you go inside yourself, you will be able to lift whatever hinders you so that you can reveal your true nature and self. You deserve to become the confident, independent person you dream you can be. Look within.